Introduction
To give consent is to allow for something to happen. Most males and females rarely ask for consent before carrying out some activities. Today we shall be discussing consent as it relates to the sex life of every human being.
Consent Explained
As a man or woman who has his or her values and morals intact, when sex is initiated towards a partner of your choosing and proper consent is not given, the idea is to back down and leave the matter to rest, if given consent then you can swing away and have fun if you must. On the other hand, when sex is initiated and proper consent is not given but the initiator goes ahead anyways be it forcefully or innocently, that person has indirectly taken advantage of the non-consenting individual and has committed a grave offence that could get the person locked up in prison.
Women Should Also Get Consent From Men
Women have mostly been on the receiving end of non-consensual sex in the past with cases of rape and whatnot and have kept on playing the victim card over the years without truly taking time to understand the word they dish out on a daily. We wonder why most women do not take the time to notice their everyday ignorance towards this topic. The truth is that most women term seduction is actually indirect rape - we explain this as the woman's continued persuasion of the man whilst fondling parts of him till he gets unwillingly aroused and succumbs, women who do this deserve lots and lots of years behind bars. Only
Do Women Not Know How To Really Ask For Sex
The actual issue we would like to focus on is how women seem and society as whole seem to disregard the feelings of a man. Very little importance is placed on how the guys feels - women seem to think that when sex is initiated it is the man's duty to always be readily available because they see men as hungry animals who don't know how to say NO - if only women actually stuck around to hear the consent from the men themselves before diving in without warning, we are sure that most women would not want to think their man is never not in the mood for sex when they are.
Who Is To Blame?
No one is to blame to be honest, everyone just needs to follow the simple conditions that come with consent. These rules are short and really easy to learn;
1. Initiate sex
2. Ask if you are allowed to
3. If not allowed, you can try one more time
4. If not still allowed, let it go
Instead of focusing on how horny you are, focus on what could be going through the mind of your partner at that exact moment. There are chances that;
1. The partner may be having a rough time
2. The partner may be on her period
3, The partner may just not be in the mood
A person does not need to make someone else feel bad about not wanting to consent. Why?
1. Sex involves two grown adults
2. You own your body and not theirs
3. It makes you out to be a gullible and selfish person who preys on being an annoying person to get what you want
Conclusion
Consent is a very strong word that everyone who is anyone must understand and live by in order to avoid prison and not further suppress the feelings of the partners.
Who Is This Article Meant For?
This article is meant for anyone who has read what we have shared above. This article is directed at the young dating couples especially and anyone in any position that precedes sexual intercourse. We exclude married couples in our narration above.
If you have questions for us, kindly reach us via our gmail therelationshipgenieng@gmail.com and we would get back to you as fast as we possibly can.
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