THE LUST COURSE

Are you thinking you are in love; here are reasons why you are actually in lust;

            Lust and love have two totally different meanings; while lust is the sexual attraction you have for someone, love is a desire you cannot explain, fathom and understand. The truth nobody checks to know what love means until they lack it, lust on the other hand is something most people engage in because they seem to bask in their ignorance of the term that is love.

            The average 2017 relationships follows this pattern;

1.      Couples/Friends = Friends – Close friends – Lovers –Sexual Partners – Strangers

2.      Courting/One Night Stands = Sex – Child birth – Strangers

3.      Friendships = Friends – Friends – Friends – Tired of Being Friends – Strangers

4.      Family = Family – No Love – Strangers

5.      Married Couples = Friends – Close Friends – Lovers – Sex (or nah) – Married – Sex – Childbirth – Strangers

            The truth about this is that this is what will still continue many years from now; I have asked myself how love fit into this steps; I grew up with words like; love is not selfish, love is longsuffering, love does not tell lies, love does not put his neighbour in harm’s way and so on and forth; so today when I see so many things contradict what love is associated with I cannot call what isn’t. If you have engaged in the cycle above more than twice, then you really don’t understand love.

            Most guys approach women for sex and that is it, I am not here to sugar coat anything for you. It won’t change because he is a different guy, it is just what it is – the first step is to accept that the pattern you have been following is not a healthy one for you; how many guys would you sleep with before you feel you have found the right guy – the right guy you may never really find.

            Many people get married and still go through this cycle, I mean after some years they become strangers to themselves, in today’s time it is swag to be a baby mama, I mean having a kid with one man (then meeting another you feel gives a shit about you and having one with him to) very soon you would have an extended family without a solid story to tell your kids how the family started. Guys with commitment issues come around saying let’s have a kid and not get married; girls tired of having the same circle of guys turn to lesbianism and vice versa. Call it what it really is.

            It is funny how many still see what is going on around them and call it love. I say we are all graduating classes in Lust Management and passing Lust Courses with full grades. I have more to express but I would keep it till next time.