Its never easy getting over someone who you seem to have fallen so deeply in love with. It gets so painful most times that some even contemplate suicide and act out by causing physical and mental harm towards their significant others in a bid to get back at them for what they feel they had taken from them. With the way relationships are going presently, the idea of love is slowly beginning to fade, people who have given love have been broken by hate and lust and transformed into demons of themselves. Some look in the mirror and seem not to be able to recognise who it is they have become.
Heartbreak does the most to people. it drives them crazy, it gets them thinking, it makes them seek help in the wrong places. Before you outright tell someone who you know has loved and taken your shit for a long time, think hard and well about how shattering your love in his or her face could break them. How will he or she cry each day, few are lucky enough to be strong enough to handle the swing but most are so soft and fragile that they cant seem to function for a period after what they have had to experience.
It is not your fault however that you fell out of love, it really is not. Love is not something you force either but the thing is find a mutual way to end things. Stop pushing your needs before that of who you chose to date. Most people just leave when things get rough, in fact that trend is becoming so popular now, people seem to have forgotten how to stay and endure shit. Just remember how breakups affect people, trust me I know too well because I shall never forget how heartbreak broke me.

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